Dear Kaylee and Jason,
Throughout these past three years I have got to watch you raise Kyler, and I can honestly say I wouldn't want things any other way. You two have been amazing parents, and I am so blessed that I have been able to be a part of it all. When I first decided to place Kyler with you I was skeptical as to how much I would be involved in his life, and how open our adoption would really be. But things turned out better than I could have hoped. Sometimes I get asked if I could go back and keep Kyler would I? That answer has always been no. Even though it got rough at times, I never doubted my decision to place him with you. I am so thankful for the amazing relationship we have built over the past few years, and what incredible parents you have been. I look forward to the years to come, and to continue watching him grow. I wish you guys luck in expanding your family. I know you have raised Kyler to be one special little boy, and he will make a great big brother one day.
Love, Michelle
We are completely open to open adoption. We want you to know that your child will always know who you are and that you love them. We plan to be very open with them about adoption, letting them know that they were adopted before they even understand what that means. We want them to know you, and to always love and respect you for the tremendous act of love that you made on their behalf. We will always do our best to respect your wishes. We will shower you with more pictures and updates than you know what to do with! This can be in the form of blogs (I love the ease and timeliness of it!), letters, phone calls, and photographs. We would like to meet you and have an ongoing relationship with you. We'd like casual contact through the years—like meeting for dinner on occasion. You will be part of your child's life.
If you prefer a closed adoption, we will honor those wishes. We would still let the child know he/she was adopted and how much love you have for them in making such a sacrifice. We will only disclose as much information about you as you choose.
No matter what level of openness you want, we will work with you in forming an honest relationship that is comfortable for all of us. No matter what, your child will know that he/she is loved, and we will forever be grateful for your decision.
Thank You!!!We want to thank you for considering us. We pray that you will feel peace with your decision. Whether you choose us or another couple, we believe that things happen for a reason.
If you prefer a closed adoption, we will honor those wishes. We would still let the child know he/she was adopted and how much love you have for them in making such a sacrifice. We will only disclose as much information about you as you choose.
No matter what level of openness you want, we will work with you in forming an honest relationship that is comfortable for all of us. No matter what, your child will know that he/she is loved, and we will forever be grateful for your decision.
Kyler's sealing day.
Dinner with Kyler's Birthparents.
Photo shoot with Kyler and his birthmom.
